On September 3, I accompanied Shelley to the Orthopedic Clinic for an examination of her ankle. While she exhibited mobility, any pressure induced pain. We initially suspected a severe sprain. However, upon further assessment, we discovered a fracture of the fibula. The fibula is a smaller bone that contributes to the stability of the lower leg and facilitates movement. The fracture was clean, necessitating a brace as the most suitable short-term solution. Upon returning home, Shelley utilized crutches, which proved to be an excessive burden for her.
On September 9, we returned to the clinic for a follow-up appointment. The fracture had shifted, necessitating surgical intervention. The procedure involved the implantation of a plate and multiple screws. Fortunately, a cancellation occurred the following day, and Shelley is scheduled for surgery tomorrow. We must commence this recovery process promptly, as I am concerned that it may impede my planned seven-week vacation, which is expected to begin in five weeks.
The most challenging aspect of this situation is that Shelley grapples with significant challenges and exhibits a profound aversion to pain. Consequently, I will assume primary caregiving responsibilities for the foreseeable future. This entails refraining from biking, limiting visits to my mother, and essentially relinquishing my autonomy. This ankle fracture transpired at a particularly opportune moment, coinciding with the successful establishment of my mother’s new residence and the effective management of her expectations. My sister and I have assumed the role of her primary caregivers for several months as she adjusts to her new environment. While I may humorously claim that I have not retired since July, the reality is that I have embraced the role of a caregiver.
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